There's a name for this. Swinging . Don't be afraid of your feelings. Have faith in your gf.
Too many people are afraid to express themselves. Go to a souple of swinger sites, real swinger sites and ask those that participate. They're really open and giving with good advise.
If I were going to do something like this I'd begin by mentioning just the idea to see what she thought. Get it into her mind and be sure that she understands that you aren't threatened by the idea. Let her know that the thought turns you on. (If you are at all, the jealous type, DO NOT do this) it will destroy your relationship.
If she's not thrown by the mention of it, allow her to have most of the input on who will be providing the input. It is her body after all.
Patience, communication and honesty will help you make the decision that's right for you. |
posted by: Daniel, 35 (reply) |
Me and my fiancee have been together for 10 years in the last 2 years me and my best friend have repeatedly had sex with her and we all love it. The absolute best sex you will ever have and the visual is awesome. It's a trust thing I think, if your girlfriend/fiance have been with you for a long time and you have known your best friend for a long time there is really no harm if you have reached that point of trust. I mean aren't those the two people you most trust? I can say we have had no issues with it and we do it every chance we get. We all understand and agree that nothing can happen unless we are all present and we are all good with that. It works, try it. If not then you trusted the wrong people. I am not saying this works for everybody but it worked out quite nicely for us. |
posted by: Reader (reply) |
I've done this with my gf and best friend and it was totally awesome. Ignore the people saying it'll ruin your relationship, if you both really want it, then go for it. A friend is the best person to do it with as there's more of a connection and also more possibilities. It's easier to relax with a firend than a stranger too. Email me for more details and advice. |
posted by: Reader (reply) |
Man i have been thinking about my girlfriend being fucked by my friends and i always thought about here with someone eles it made me horny and so i was going through my friends to see witch one i would be most comfortable with and i found out it was my friend mitch and he was up for it and my girlfriend said that mitch was hot to so that was good haha and sooo they fucked hard and for a long time tooo while i watched and i loved it the way she did everything to him and it didnt break me and my girlfriend up we got together more and we were more mature around other people and as for me and mitch we are still good friends. |
